I would never encourage people to be in a toxic relationship. But pretending that every single act and thought that we have is pure and healthy would be the biggest lie I'd ever heard. Everyone is a little bit crazy, a bit toxic, a tad, just a little…. I hope. The thing is, we can't pretend as if every romantic relationship is fully healthy. That is completely unnatural. People get jealous, act irrationally, do mean things on purpose. If each one of us were pure perfection and never did anything bad, life would be SO boring it would actually be unbearable.
What I really hate, more than toxicity and meanness, is the people who pretend to be perfect. Those people who are always in a pose of perfection and happiness. That is a complete and utter lie. Nobody acts like that or even thinks like that. Having a quote of evil is what makes us human. We aren't the greatest things on earth. Sometimes we are horrible, but you know what? It's part of life. I prefer someone being mean to my face than pretending to be nice and sweet but talking bad things behind my back.
That's why I will always defend toxicity and craziness over faking. Yes, maybe you are mean, so what? You are mean but true to yourself. You don't go around pretending to be an angel on earth. You admit to your mistakes and are honest about being a mean girl. It's still a thousand times better than any pretentious person who likes to parade around as if they were the best thing on earth. I prefer genuineness over this fake perfection every day. Be truthful. You are a little evil. It's what gives your personality more edge and makes you far more interesting to everyone who surrounds you. I'll always value honesty more. Because it actually takes value and pride to admit that we aren't perfect. That we are full of flaws and that evil has not escaped us. We are who we are, and there is no shame in that.