I recently attended a wedding of my wife's friends. I hardly knew anybody, only a handful of second-hand friends and acquaintances, so I didn't have a lot to do. I took on the full baby-watching mantle and hung out with my daughter the entire time, to keep her busy and let my wife spend time with her friends. Between the small food plates and the background songs, my daughter discovered a cat hanging around in the back - so of course we went there. The cat was a friendly one, letting us play and pet her. According to the venue workers, she belongs to the owner and is very well taken care of. So I wasn't worried about her safety at all. But that wasn't the case for the couple who found Cleo at the wedding they attended.
When you see a cat in a crowded, public place, the first assumption for most would be that this is a stray cat. I discovered the cat I saw was not, but Cleo was. And she wasn't just a stray - she was a stray mama taking care of kittens. She was probably scraping for leftovers after every event in that venue, and the wedding this couple attended was no different. They had the right idea in mind, returning to rescue her and her kittens the day after… only to discover the kittens were all gone. Taken by other guests? Shooed away by the staff? No one knows.
The thing is - separating a mama cat from her kittens is a tragedy brewing. If you separate a mama cat from the kittens too early, she might experience true grief and hormonal troubles. It sends a mama cat into turbulent anxiety. Even if the kittens were taken by good-intentioned people - forgetting about the mama cat is a huge no-no. I'm a big mama cat advocate - please, never forget about the one who gave birth to the cute kittens you want to adopt. The kittens are cute, but mama cats need homes just as much as they do.